YY’s creation

QQ on outing day

 

she reminds mi of a giraffe when she looks up at mi….hehe

 

social calendar

 

tink YY is keeping tabs on my social calendar coz he stated ‘u long time didn’t mit karen auntie’

i noe the day will come when tables will b turned and i ask him who he is going out wif and wat time he’ll b back, till den, he’s the boss

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

cubicle warming

 

yes, mi starts at new workstation from mon

do pop by and visit

gifts r welcome of course,  haha…juz kidding

hope i dun walk in by the wrong door

 

 

 

so not motivated

 

taking huge huge effort to focus and get thru each day

 

where is the passion?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Violent – and spreading – Maoist insurgency threatens India’s runaway growth

 

i was quite surprised when i read tis article abt guerrillas attacking and torching an iron ore processing plant

The Naxalites—Maoist insurgents who seek the violent overthrow of the state and who despise India’s landowning and business classes. The Naxalites have been slowly but steadily spreading through the countryside for decades. Few outside India have heard of these rebels, named after the Bengal village of Naxalbari

the pressing need to mine iron and coal for steel and power threatens tribals who are a minority—about 85 million strong—who descend from India’s original inhabitants and are largely nature worshippers. They are desperately poor, but unlike the poverty of the urban masses in Mumbai or Kolkata, their suffering has remained largely hidden to outsiders and most Indians, caught up as they are in the country’s incredible growth. The Naxalites, however, know the tribals well and have recruited from their ranks for decades.

Naxalites may infiltrate India’s major cities targetting students and the unemployed, and create armed, “secret, self-defense squads” that will execute orders.

 

ST-UOB Visa card

 

mi got tis card abt 1 yr back

i like both ladies card and tis coz got SMT$

i was trying to figure out how the rewards/SMT$ works for tis card tdy coz i dun qualify for Red Rewards nor UOB Rewards Plus

called singtel coz i dun see any redemption of the SMT$ earned on the singtel bills and i was told tat coz i’m on corp plan, no rebates!?    wat??!   i onli save $3.10 mthly from corp plan,  big deal when compared to the SMT$ i lost out !

den i called UOB to clarify and was i glad to b told tat the SMT$ is used to offset the following mth’s singtel bill every mth when it’s billed to the card.  so it’s a mthly cashback feature…now, it makes sense!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

YY’s wishes

 

while i lie in bed willing my fever to subside on tue nite, YY told mi tis before bed

“if a genie appears nw and grants mi 3 wishes, i’ll wish for 1) u to get well 2) to quit ur job 3) to haf ur own shop.  and if i can only haf one wish, i wish for u to get well”

den he lent mi his beloved bolster.  when my fever gone dwn the next morn, he proclaimed tat his bolster has magical powers *faint*

 

 

 

 

 

 

bliss

 

is going for bfast on sun morn wif kiddos

such is the hectic lifestyle of us tat we dun usually see each other in the morn

i leave for work while they’re still zzzing or preparing for skool

taken on one of the sun

the 3 little pigs stuffing their faces 
 

 

QQ’s fav prata kosong

 

YY’s favs : big bfast plus sausage mcmuffin

 

 

 

 

 

cartoon channels

 

whenever i go on hols wif kiddos, i get to watch way too much cartoons

the first thing the kiddos figure out when they get into the hotel room is find the cartoons channel

disney channel has a movie on sat nite which is beli late nite coz it ends after midnite but i enjoy.  i haf watched 20,000 leagues under the sea and atlantis which r both beli good

and of course, we watched hannah montana, phineas and ferb (watcha doing?), Zack and Cody, Minutemen, martin mystery, totally spies (i hate tis show!), shaun the sheep (stoopid), kim possible, wizards of waverly place and much more

when in m’sia, we watch cartoons on Vision 4 and it nbr fails to amaze mi how cartoons can b played 24 hrs (i onli verified till 2am)

the cartoons are looped and episodes can b repeated over a wk so i end up watching the same episodes more den 3 times!

the cartoons r astro boy, spiderman, jackie chan adventures, jumanji & stuart little

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

27 jun 08

 

tis is a back dated entry, saw the day’s stats from lotus note calendar

tdy’s Day 179 of 2008
178 days have passed
187 days are left

time passes so much quicker when u r older

 

 

 

明阳花鼓

 

y cannot find the 剧情 of 明阳花鼓?   irritating

 

the killer shoes

 

seems to haf reli expanded after a couple of wears

i haf been wearing the green and red ones and they dun feel so painful nw.  i thot it was becoz i m getting numb to the feet pinching sensation

den i wore the black shoes for the first time and omg!   so incredibly tight (er den the other 2 pieces)

so conclusion, the shoes dun take tat long to b broken into.   my feet haben been broken by them yet but not far off.   always a relief to remove the shoes after a long day of walking from 1 mtg to another

 

 

 

 

cloud 9

 

the silver lining to my clouds!

wat put mi on cloud 9 after a hectic time of mtgs, car, office politics and ass covering tat i want no part of….is a piece of junk mail

onli marie understands to make the correct guess immediately…tis gal should b a detective

 

say no

 

tis is not the first time i find myself caught in such a situation

it’s a no thanks task and everyone has access to email so it’s redundant for mi to do tis

wif how hectic tis wk has been, frankly, i dun need such incidents and the unhappiness caused to ALL parties is uncalled for

so i remind myself to say no to any such requests in future

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

goals

 

“the most impt things abt goals is having one”

 

 

 

 

yahoo mail

 

the best thing abt it is the ease of navigation esp when clearing my mypoints mail

design of UI is key to usability

 

Java

 

i had sun java installed but not checked under internet options

since MS java was no longer supported, i checked sun java

car works but the java applet for dbs internet banking is not loading…oh tis is juz great

 

 

deadline

 

i m so much happier nw tat i haf set a deadline.  i noe tat the end will come and i feel so relieved

at least nw i m working hard to see the end

in the meantime, i muz quickly explore other options

 

 

kiddos

 

the 9pm show la femme has a very good script, so relevant to us, i feel

and i realise some of my colleagues & frens r hooked on it too

i luv the portray of kiddos.  they r reli reli xtremely smart nowadays

one scene has jiajie telling mani “kids r easy to win over, juz bring them out and buy them gifts’

i turned to YY and he was shaking his head muttering “doesn’t work on mi” 

i m surprised and impressed.  kiddos dun juz watch lor.  they actualli understand the storyline beli well and apply it on themselves too

even QQ can tell u exactly wat happened in the storyline nw eg. she was telling mi jiajie wants to divorce baoyu

dun take kiddos for fools

 

 

spring/summer cleaning plus 开源

 

tink it’s time i start to get rid of some stuff at home and 开源

my consumerism is horrible, i haf enuff skincare products to last mi a yr or 2

and my wardrobe is bursting wif clothes (how come i can nbr find anything to wear?)  hehe

and i luv to keep bills.  once i get rid of some stuff, i will use the proceeds to get a shredder

 

 

 

 

packing

it’s funny how history repeated itself while we were packing last nite

dot forgotten her cable lock combi and i cracked it for her again, juz like last time

and when it was time to go, i realised my pass is missing. shit! i muz haf dropped and sealed it into one of the boxes…argh

and the lights went out halfway during operations packing. good thing dot found the D&D premium, a light cube which changes color and i continued to pack using it

as time goes by, i start to accum too much stuff in the office so i decided to bring some home.  but tis is no solution.  i need i own too much stuff…i should get a stall at flea mkt

Happy Anniversary

Because you’ve been with MyPoints since June 23, 2001, we’ve created a page on MyPoints with Point earning opportunities especially for you!

how sweet~! tat’s y there’s a member since date on every amex card

废话

有时看到无聊的简讯, 真的会吐血.

什么叫你回来了会做吗?

真是废话

 

 

 

Go Diego Go!

 

is QQ’s fav cartoon

she watches it everyday after skool

it’s kinda interactive coz the characters will ask the tv audience to do some actions or say some words and QQ does them !  She even knows the songs!

oh, and Diego is Dora’s cousin, btw so Dora makes a guest appearance in the show too

and i tink the coolest part is the show teaches the kids some Spanish too!

 

 

 

yahoo mail

 

is great~!

i can create additional email addresses and haf the mail all delivered into a single mailbox.  i get to choose which email address i wana send mail from too.

i luv yahoo mail

 

 

draw a line in the sand

 

i m drawing a line bet work and personal

coz i m so pissed wif her tat i’ve lost all respect for her

and yes, i can’t stand to haf anything to do wif her outside work and tat includes lunches

 

 

get well soon

 

isn’t tat wat most ppl will tell u when u r sick?

i hear tat from clients, friends, colleagues but wat does my boss say?   “ok”

and i keep getting sms abt work from her

frankly speaking i was too groggy last nite to care abt replying sms for internal office politics.  i m not interested in playing games.

leadership skills can b taught but someone hoo is unemphatic will nbr b a good ppl leader

good leaders draw ppl to them, ppl wana follow them

i can’t wait to get away from bad leaders!

ppl dun leave becoz of their jobs, ppl leave becoz of their boss

i m setting a deadline for myself coz it’s unhealthy to let tis matter drag on and affect my physical and mental well-being

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

fever

 

is gone tis morning!   i slept wif the thermometer coz i m beli paranoid abt high fevers, especially at nite

phew~  wat a relief tat i m on the road to recovery

 

 

 

burning up

 

i was burning up yest afternoon till nite

temp remained bet 38.5 to 39 degress celsius and i was kinda groggy

i m scared of fevers even since i ended up in hospital for an infection and persistent fever

 

 

 

 

 

stoopid IFB

 

of the programming tools i ever used, the IFB of CAR from IBM is one of the stoopidest

keeps hanging and lagging!

xtremely frustrating when i m oredi pulling out my hair in writing the report, den stoopid things like the cursor taking forever to appear or being unable to save juz abt does it for mi

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

recognition

 

i m immune to any form of recognition, i haf no feeling when i see the mail and i juz feel tat it’s all tok.  tok is cheap, dun pay lip service to mi

when do ppl get awards?  when they go the xtra mile and clear shit den mgmt gifs them some recognition to make them feel better.  the typical line we hear is “going beyond scope of duty, putting in personal time…blah blah blah

but do the bosses reli care how much u put in?   the constant msg i get from my bosses is : dun do anything beyond ur scope.

den when u do too much tat others see and recognise, they boh bian but to gif u some award

“thanks for clearing shit!”

wat a load of crap!

i gif myself a deadline for paying the price of my job before i start living again

the msg i get is beli clear : finish ur work watever the price and yes, i m expected to work after hrs
there is ZERO appreciation of the quality of my work or the hrs tat go into it

when work is nuthing but work, the xtra hrs become the price

when u r motivated, u will b more den willing to work and it wouldn’t b so painful.   unfortunately i m not motivated, esp in monetary sense and inspiring leader ?  *pui* 

all the courses in the world cannot teach a person to become a good boss if genuine concern for staff and their work life balance and development is missing in the first place

and yes, i will speak my mind abt tis.  there is no way i m keeping quiet so forget abt covering ur sweet ass

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

5am

is the magical hr tat i m out of bed nw, in fact my alarm is much earlier and i snoozed till 5am

if a few mths back, anyone has told mi tat i would b up by such unearthly hrs, i would b horrified

but it’s not as bad as how early it sounds coz i make an effort to sleep by midnite

nw wat is missing from tis early morn equation is being able to end my day earlier too

there’s reli no point in starting early and ending late still coz work life balance is gone

Kung Fu panda

YY luvs it so much we caught it twice, the 2nd time wif mum & QQ

it’s funny alrite esp wif the flabby panda and his antics

but some of the parts eg. tdy’s the present and the secret ingredient is nuthing is so UN-creative lor ! copied from emails no though !

fav parts :

panda eating peach from the duno wat wisdom peach tree
panda washing his pits in the duno wat wisdom pool
panda climbing 10 feet off the ground and doing a perfect split for cookies
the dumpling snatching scenes

viet picts

 
Day 1 in HCMC – first stop at Pho 2000, the shop at corner of ben thanh mkt made famous by bill clinton’s visit in 2000

 

 

wat should i order?

 

super yummy grilled drumstick !

the menu(on the wall)

YY and his pho ga

En Route to Pham Ngu Lao, taking the scenic route across the park

 

 

 

 

 

price of job

i was reading an article tdy tat asked wat is the price of ur job

the price includes :
- working long hours
- putting up wif abuse
- and basically every other suffering possible from work

and when the price is too high to pay, it’s obvious wat the way out is

QQ wif bottles

my fav shot of QQ holding 2 bottles of green tea at muine sanddunes

frightfully bz

 

for some bizzare reasons, mi has been frightfully bz lately

and watever free time i haf on sat, i feel so sleepy though i managed to sleep for 10 hrs!

the focus at the moment is to work work work, sleep sleep sleep and spend lotsa quality time wif family

mayb mi is too greedy and wana do too much so end up s-t-r-e-t-c-h-i-n-g myself

still got so many things to do on a sun !   wash car, bring YY cut hair, put in abit of work, clear my overflowing drawer of mails, ironing and the list continues

 
后记 :

managed to do most of the things : YY’s hair’s cut, his schoolbag’s packed, the car is washed though i had to go to 4 different carparks in bedok reservior to find a working and available car wash bay

so feeling abit less stressed nw and the data has loaded in CAR…thank god for tat !

a fresh and long to-do list for tdy for work…sigh, when will it all end? i m getting so sick of tis routine. i cannot wait to say ‘bye’

i need my life back !

 

 

 

delayed sms

 

i wonder if it’s the network or my fone acting up.

i haf been getting sms delivered after 3 hrs!   and i start getting msgs tat ppl called mi when i was unavailable…hrs later too

frustrating!  the fone is less den 6 mths old onli

no choice but to change back to my red coz i’m not getting my 2FA when using interner banking!

though my first luv is still motorola coz it feels best in my palm but i need some time to get used to the sms functions again

 

 

ymail

 

in case u haben heard, yahoo tripled its mail capacity but adding 2 more domains ymail and rocketmail

mi chopped bonbon78 for ymail liao!!  yea! yea!  i hate domains tat end wif .com.something

and i tried emailing yahoo cust svc again to reset my bonbon78 ID….sigh!  duno when i can get over the loss of my 10+ yrs acct

but the Yahoo! ID login is not beli good

for yahoo emails, Yahoo! ID is juz bonbon78 but for ymail and rocketmail, the Yahoo! ID is the full string of email address wif domain of course

not tat fantastic leh, should store the ymail ID as YMail ID and allow direct login from ymail.com instead of centrally from Yahoo

i’ll still keep mysinamail but i nbr got used to the UI so i’m beli happy to come back as bonbon78 to Yahoo!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

wallpaper of the day

 

i luv coastlines

there’s nuthing like driving along a nbr ending coastline

 

 

 

 

 

blue skies in sg

5am

 

everything can wait till 5am the next morn

 

viet prices

 

every time i retn from a place, i always feel like jotting dwn the prices of everything there so i can refer next time

so b4 i forget, some of the prices i rem :

flip flops from ben thanh – 25,000 dong ~ sgd2.50
1.5 litres of bottled water – 5,000 dong ~ sgd0.50
kiddos t-shirt off the st – 1 usd ~ sgd1.36
kiddos pyjamas set – 70,000 dong ~ sgd 7
embroidered kiddos slippers - 35,000 done ~ sgd3.50  ( tis is from ben thanh nite mkt & wifout haggling, i got another pair from airport at 4 usd

 

note. tonite’s news on tv was saying tat it’s dbl digits inflation in viet and the economy is slowing dwn

 

something’s seriously wrong

 

wif the current state of things

i start out fresh and happy but my spirits get dampened by funny msgs

totally demoralising and at the busiest period of my stint

i haf nbr worked so hard AND felt so low morale

i work for myself, my clients and NOT for my job

i m seriously irritated

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

good music

 

nuthing beats good music in the car

and driving alone means having a mobile ktv suite to urself

 

 

day work, night work; cover mountain, cover sea; be horse be cow

 

 

on holidays

 

 

 

i always feel very 喘 when i rush to get ready for hols

tink my stress levels peak juz b4 my hols start

bath time

 

i m so efficient wif my morning bath tat i can b ready in less den 30 mins nw

and i didn’t mind not bathing in the morn while on hols, as long as no bad hair day

tat reli helps when having kiddos to attend to in the morn

but i take my own sweet time wif my nite bath though my pressing desire to zzz helps mi speed up

if bz till no time to waste in the bathroom, tat’s serious hor !

 

 

 

 

 

 

wallpaper

is autumn at the moment

which is reflective of my mood

autumn is the season to reap wat u sow

and i m heading towards the unknown…i luv tis feeling of anticipation

by hook or by crook, i muz keep pushing ahead

the time has come!

 

 

 

 

 

not leaving on fri nite

 

haha…here i go again

leaving on a sun gifs mi time to settle errands on sat though my social calendar is packed on sat….i need more zzz

it’s too stressful to plan hols starting from fri nite

better to start on a more relaxed note, ain’t tat the whole point of taking a break instead of squeezing in a day or 2

but my sep trip will start mid wk.  coz i deliberated over so many dates when i did the booking, till nw, i still can’t rem the dates nor find my itinerary so i haf to keep referring to my leave docket.  at least tat’s accurate

still rd crabs

 

are still the best !  and their rest day is wed

and their altitude is a lot better den mellben.   stick to black pepper and mee goreng and u can’t go wrong

tink mellben was quite disappointing in terms of their crabs.  they haf a lot of variety but it’s juz another seafood restaurant.  i won’t bother to go there and q for it again

the crab tang hoon at pasir ris is so much yummier!

 

 

 

 

overload

 

there is juz so much to do suddenly.  it’s like everything’s happening at the same time

mayb it’s my gemini nature.  i wana do so much and all at once

i noe i m overloaded when it’s not possible to finish during normal wk hrs and i need to tabao work and sacrifice zzz !   and i’ve been having early early days all wk

and wfh is addictive.  the temptation is so strong to juz keep wking and wking…eeeks, sounds like the jap wking themselves to death

i wk at the most unearthly hrs.  i muz break the pattern, thank goodness i m away next wk!

i m thankful i plan my leave half a yr ahead

if u wait till u r free to schedule leave, u will nbr haf time

since u can’t plan wk, the least u can do for urself is to plan leave and rest regularly.   batts need to b recharge, dun wait till flat out !

but the most frustrating part is, wk hard and ppl still do things to make u vomit blood.  i need to stitch and bitch. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

done

 

at last, phew!

so exciting!  i can’t stand the suspense!

muz trust wat marie says

at least nw, i feel tat i didn’t let myself dwn

hoo is the most impt person in the world?  mi of course ! 

if u dun luv urself, u r not fit to luv others

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

liviabus

tis came from steve hoo shot it in prague

wah ei seng lee zuo dua !

 

best shot

 

i muz gif it my best shot

i muz b less passive

i muz fight for wat i want

 

 

 

wet nite, cool nite

 

i like the cool weather tonite

such a drastic change from the glaring and scorching heat tis afternoon

the whole world ard mi seems to haf cooled dwn by at least a couple of degrees

i wana zzzz in and hibernate !  i shall sleep more while on holidays next wk !

i dun tink sleep can b stored but it’s good to recharge and catch up

can’t wait to zzz while having my facial

 

 

 

shoes spree

 

i set out to get shoes and i got 3 pairs from itti & otto at nearly 50% off

no, these r not comfortable shoes but damn, they look good

so i persist in wearing a new pair tdy tat got mi raves enuff to render the piece of skin tat came off my foot worth the pain

and i m ai swee mai mie so i will wear another pair of the pumps tml

no pain no gain

 

 

 

 

turning 30

 

if life is compared to gestation, i m in my second trimester and tis is the best and most enjoyable part of the process

first trimester : getting to know yourself, every experience is new and foreign, everyday’s a challenge tat makes u too bz to enjoy the process as u get thru each day

second trimester : comfortable in my own skin, familiarity marks ability to tailor choices to my preferences, start to enjoy living and life’s experiences everyday,  challenges are selected and undertaken wif pride.

third trimester : may get sick of the process (some ppl do get tired of living towards the end), i wana b surrounded by kiddos, to see dirty little hands and feet and b driven crazy by their banter…wat a way to go

 

and so i haf crossed a significant milestone of my life, while on beautiful muine beach catching lala at nite after a full day of sand dunes and phan thiet city tour plus visiting giant lying buddha on a mountain and seeing tons of baby mountain crabs, yes!  betcha didn’t noe crabs live at high altitude too !

ocbc

is my bank of choice for the cda

coz they had a free gift when u submit the forms at their branch AND they haf sunday banking, so convenient!

and i haf better vibes abt a local bank understanding my and my kiddos’ saving needs better

narnia

finally finished the lion, the witch and the wardrobe and halfway thru the horse and his boy

the story gets more and more exciting

i m slow when reading text wif lotsa descriptive details coz i wana understand every phrase fully

sleep

been getting lots of it over the wkend yet i still get so sleepy by 10pm every nite tat i m wondering if i’m sleep deprived?

but ample sleep is good for skin and health so i indulge

not getting younger, beauty sleep is a must!

Konnyaku jelly

something i can make which the kids luv

i use the ready mix from phoon huat. i luv how precise the measurements r. one pack makes 32 jellies, half pack makes 16 exactly. i noe haf 2 moulds so i either make it in 2 batches or use other containers for half the jelly.

info on Konnyaku jelly
High in fibre, Konnyaku helps to activate the function of the intestines for detoxification which can go a long way to prevent intestinal cancer. The weight conscious will love the fact that Konnyaku is low in calories while the fast expanding substance helps to give the feeling that the stomach is full.

i first knew abt the jelly when the packet ones were sold in sg which was in my JC prima deli days.
it’s high in fibre quality make it a healthy snack. my kiddos seem to go for high fibre stuff. they luv prunes and apricots too

tiramisu

cake from four leaves sux…so awful i can’t bring myself to eat another mouthful

it’s a terrible waste of food, i noe

and i was greedy and ordered a big one

but i can’t get past a quarter of it

tink i’ll stick to strawberry shortcake or blackforest next time

more fotos!

as i was organising the latest travel fotos from cam and fone, bro discovered more fotos on the new m2 card, more shg picts!

Bhutan

http://www.kingdomofbhutan.com/

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bhutan

i m totally fascinated by tis mysterious country, the happiest in asia!

perceptions

facts are elements of truth
perceptions are u tink is the truth

while facts stand the test of time
perceptions r a lot harder to manage and change

無聊搞單戀

無無聊聊時，可能會搞一些單戀，對象錯、環境錯，但心情對啊！單身的人會單戀，有伴侶的人都會單戀，因為悶又因為賀爾蒙失調，兼且，大城市中，總有太多迷人的偶遇，人非草木，動心了並不出奇。

通常，單戀的對象都是謎一樣，你可能知道他的職業和愛情狀況，但你不知道他的性格、喜好、做人態度，基本上你甚麼都不知。

而當這段單戀過氣了之後，你不會失落，也沒太大傷感，你明知開始的原因是因為悶，當中也無甚麼交流和甜蜜，失去了的話，你沉靜一陣子，又能找個新對象去單戀。

你聽說過，有人因為單戀，最後發展出不倫之戀，因為陰差陽錯，那段不倫之戀的結局很悲慘。於是呢，你暗自偷笑了，不能與單戀對象發展，可能是福氣。某些男女關係，根本就是上天的懲罰。

你的身邊朋友都會單戀啊，當你問他是否喜歡某名女子時，他會簡單地答：「是啊！」但當你問他因何不落實追求她時，他就會答：「不會啦！傻啦！」那麼你就知道，他不過在享受有個心上人的感受。

無無聊聊時，故意放個人在心上，偶然思念一番，感覺真好啊。單戀得再深，都不過是心裏的事，不用真正付出，多棒！

好男友記得不要做的 9 件事

 

interesting article

應該做一個理智的男人。不管你和你的女友有多深的感情，也千萬切記，她仍然是一個獨立的個體，獨立的人。有些事，不能對她做！

1. 別問她的過去
眼睛要看將來，看過去有何用？過去她不認識你，你又不認識她，她有權利保存自己的過往回憶。可以因她是你的女朋友而關注她的過去，但過去她並非你的女友。

2. 呷醋時不要把醋瓶子打翻
呷醋是愛的表現，沒有愛，哪來的醋？但呷醋過度，是自私另一種表現。

3. 不要吵架而關機
因為生氣是暫時的，沒有消不了的氣，在她需要你的時候，要讓她能打得通你的手機。

4. 不要當著她的面稱讚別的女孩
就算你表現出欣賞別的女孩，也要告訴你的女朋友，她才是你的最愛。

5. 不要等著她打電話給你
不管你如何的靦腆，不要總是太被動，女人比男人更需要被重視的感覺，愛她就要重視她。

6. 不要懷疑她
信任是愛情的基礎，相信她就是相信你自己，相信你自己的能力與魅力。

7. 不要拿她和你的前女友比較
天下沒有相同的兩個人。前女友有自己的優點，也有她的缺點，現任女友亦同。如果一定要比，請拿現任女友的優點和前女友的缺點來比。

8. 不要把愛情托付給星座、血型、 塔羅牌等
再壞的牌，放在高手手裡，也能打出好效果，再好的牌，換差手來打，也會打得一塌糊塗。幸福是要用心經營的，不懂得珍惜，再配搭的星座都會吵得不可收拾。

9. 不要佔有她的全部空間
兩個人的世界很小，只要一張小床；兩個人的世界又很大，似乎找不到邊際。兩個人的距離很近，有人同床異夢；兩個人的距離很遠，有人天涯咫尺。給她空間，說到底，就是給愛情一個生存和滋養的空間，愛情需要呼吸！

下定决心， 义无反顾

 

sometimes it takes juz tat little bit more to push u over the edge and plunge headfirst into the unknown & exciting

 

 

What Type of Guy is for u?

 

You fall for the tough guy. He won’t always be there for you, but he looks good in a leather jacket!

 

it does tell how superficial i m, doesn’t it? 

excited !

 

over the possiblity of my dream coming true, no matter how remote it seems nw

been so busy doing my sums since coming back and cracking my brain over wat i can create and daunted by the limits of my creativity

creativity needs to be fed and stimulated constantly by different experiences

 

 

 

What kinda fragrance are u?

I’m Aqua Blue

You are clean fresh fragrance.Your color is cool aqua blue. You are like DOLCE&GABBANAs light blue.

 

ok, it’s true. coz my fav scent of all time is Boss Elements Aqua.  i cannot resist men wearing tis scent and i wear it myself…haha…i should haf been born a man given how i tink but i’m gay so i like men…warped reasoning, i noe

 

What Greek God Are You?

I’m Zeus

“You are a powerful and confidant person. You can stand through anything and make what ever you want to happen happen. “

 

how inspiring to see tis nw !  there is no time like the present

 

new habits, good habits

one of the best part abt the trip is the regular hrs we kept

QQ zzz at 9 sharp, wif or wifout din coz she skipped her nap

and it wasn’t so hard to get up in the morn after all when we all turned in before 10

muz try to continue the good, new habits

time for my beauty zzz

翅膀

heard 2 songs wif the words 翅膀 on radio while getting home

tis muz b a sign ! to 展翅高飞

挥着翅膀的女孩

  好听！

当我还是一个懵懂的女孩
遇到爱不懂爱
从过去到现在直到他也离开
留我在云海徘徊明白没人能取代
他曾给我的信赖
see me fly, i’m proud to fly up high
不能一直依赖别人给我拥戴
believe me i can fly,
i’m singing in the sky
就算风雨覆盖我也不怕重来
我已不是那个懵懂的女孩
遇到爱用力爱仍信真爱
风雨来不避开谦虚把头低下来
像沙鸥来去天地只为寻一个奇迹
see me fly , i’m proud to fly up high
生命已经打开我要那种精彩
believe me i can fly,
i’m singing in the sky
你曾经对我说做勇敢的女孩
{间奏}
我盼有一天能和你相见
骄傲地对着天空说是借着你的风
let me fly,i’m proud to fly up high
生命已经打开我要那种精彩
believe me i can fly,
i’m singing in the sky
你曾经对我说做勇敢的女孩
我不会独单因为你都在

life is great!

 

hearing tis line on radio while looking at the great eastern building feels great!

 

贪婪

 

贪婪是一口气读完 all the newly borrowed 亦舒 books from the library

 

y no updates?

 

eeks!  mi got so much to write but how come all my frens’ blogs got no update for the past 10 days?

 

 

back!

 

since yest, happy not b arriving at unearthly hrs…tis is definitely a sign of old age!

was overly ambitious and went for spa and din…i was totally flat out b4 on the way home

feeling reli recharged and ready to take on the world, even managed to work 12 hrs straight tdy

muz try to pace myself else my batt gets flat quickly